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The Sensualist

Awakened by Sensory Richness:

The Sensualist finds their desire in the world of physical and sensory delights—soft touches, captivating scents, soothing or exciting sounds, and visual beauty. Every detail in their environment can either spark or dim their passion, making sensory stimulation their key to arousal.

Grounded in the Present Moment:

Pleasure for a Sensualist is about being fully immersed in the here and now. From the silky feel of sheets to the flicker of candlelight or the intoxicating scent of a partner, they thrive when fully engaged in their sensory experiences.

Environment and Touch are Key:

A Sensualist’s desire ignites when the environment feels safe, beautiful, and inviting. Dim lighting, soft music, gentle or intense touch—these are the accelerators that bring their sensuality to life.

Example:

A Sensualist feels aroused by the slow, deliberate stroke of a hand, the warmth of their partner’s skin, or the soft whisper of music in the background. They may also crave heightened sensory play that engages their body in more adventurous or intense ways.

Your Gift as a Sensualist

Your ability to savour the richness of the moment is a powerful strength. By prioritising your sensory needs and creating a nurturing environment, you can unlock deeper intimacy and bring passion back into your life.

When Desire and Passion Feel Absent

If you’re lacking desire or feeling disconnected from your sensuality, it might be because your sensory needs are unmet.

Stress, a chaotic environment, or feeling emotionally disconnected can act as brakes for your sensual energy.

Here’s what you can do:

  1. Reignite Your Senses: Start small—light candles, wear soft fabrics, play music you love, or enjoy a warm bath. Create an environment that makes you feel relaxed and nurtured.
  2. Focus on Touch: Reconnect with your body through self-massage, gentle stretching, or mindful caresses with a partner. Start slow, and notice how your body responds.
  3. Address Stress: If stress or overwhelm is shutting down your desire, find ways to create moments of calm—a walk in nature, deep breathing, or mindful rituals can help.
  4. Communicate with Your Partner: Share your need for sensory connection. Whether it’s a slower pace, more physical affection, or playful exploration, let them know how to support your desire.

Congratulations!

You’ve Discovered Your Light Sexual Desire Blueprint...
Now Let’s Take It to the Next Level!

Unlock Your Full Sexual Desire Blueprint – Your Journey Isn’t Over Yet!

Now that you know your Light Sexual Desire Blueprint… what about the part of you that’s still holding back?

Understanding what fuels your desire is powerful. 

But to fully unlock your sexual energy, you also need to understand what blocks it.

That’s where your Shadow Sexual Desire Blueprint comes in.

Your shadow blueprint reveals the hidden patterns, fears, and conditioning that may be shutting down your pleasure—often without you even realising it.

For just $19, you’ll get instant access to:

🔥Your Shadow Sexual Desire Blueprint Quiz – Discover the unseen forces that may be suppressing your desire

🔥 Unlock Your Sexual Desire 5-Day Video Training – A deep dive into the Sexual Desire Matrix and how it impacts your intimacy

🔥 The Brakes & Accelerators Guide – Know exactly what turns you on and off, so you can shift out of frustration and into pleasure

🔥 Personalised Desire Map – Create your unique sexual desire map so you know how to become an invitation for love so you enjoy a love life that profoundly fulfils you and allows you to feel deeply seen, cherished and adored (I promise you it’s possible!)

This isn’t just about information—it’s about transformation.

If you’re ready to finally break free from old patterns and experience the intimacy that melts your heart and delights your soul, this is your next step

Who is this for?

This is for you if:

  • You feel disconnected from your body and desire, and sex has become another thing on your to-do list
  • You struggle with low libido and wonder if something is wrong with you

  • You love your partner but don’t feel that spark anymore, and you’re not sure how to get it back

  • You’re single and worried about ever feeling desirable again or attracting the right kind of intimacy

  • You’ve read books, listened to podcasts, and tried “fixing” your sex life, but nothing really changes

  • You desire more passion, confidence and pleasure but don’t know where to start

  •  You had past negative sexual experiences that still rob you of pleasure and deep intimacy

If you see yourself in any of these, the Unlock Your Sexual Desire training is for you.

Who is this for?

This is for you if:

You feel disconnected from your body and desire, and sex has become another thing on your to-do list

You struggle with low libido and wonder if something is wrong with you

You love your partner but don’t feel that spark anymore, and you’re not sure how to get it back

You’re single and worried about ever feeling desirable again or attracting the right kind of intimacy

You’ve read books, listened to podcasts, and tried “fixing” your sex life, but nothing really changes

 You desire more passion, confidence and pleasure but don’t know where to start

 

 You had past negative sexual experiences that still rob you of pleasure and deep intimacy

If you see yourself in any of these, the Unlock Your Sexual Desire training is for you.

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Day 1

Unlock the Power of the Sexual Desire Matrix

Understand What Shapes Your Desire

Most women believe desire is something you either have or don’t have, but in reality, your sexual energy is influenced by key psychological, emotional, and relational factors.

This session will help you uncover your unique Sexual Desire Matrix—the combination of micro and macro factors that either awaken or suppress your sexual energy.

What You’ll Learn

🔥The 6 Micro Factors of Desire—how your personal experiences and inner world influence your sexual energy

🔥 The 4 Macro Factors of Desire—why your external environment, culture, and life experiences shape your ability to feel turned on

🔥 Why desire isn’t something you “fix”—but something you learn to nurture in ways that actually work for you

🔥 How your body, emotions, and relationships shape your arousal patterns—so you can finally stop feeling “broken”

🔥 The first step to unlocking more desire—understanding where you are right now and what’s missing

🔥See where you’ve been stuck and what needs to shift to get your passion for love and life back

🔥 Why self-awareness is the key to effortless intimacy—because desire isn’t just about sex, it’s about your whole life

Day 2

Identify Your Brakes & Accelerators

  • Get crystal clear on what turns you on and off—it’s probably NOT what you think
  • and how your body naturally regulates desire
  • Find out what hidden stressors have been killing your libido without you realising

Day 3

Discover Your Light Sexual Desire Blueprint

  • Find out what makes pleasure feel natural, easy and joyful for you
  • Learn how to work with your natural sexual wiring instead of against it
  • See how your Light Blueprint plays out in your relationships so you can create more fulfilling intimacy

Day 4

Reveal Your Shadow Sexual Desire Blueprint

  • Discover the hidden barriers that are dimming your desire
  • Recognise where old patterns of self-doubt, fear or past conditioning are still affecting your intimacy
  • Understand how to stop sabotaging your pleasure and begin rewriting your story

Day 5

Create Your Personalised Desire Map

  • Bring everything togetherso you finally have a clear path forward
  • Integrate your Light and Shadow Blueprints, knowing exactly how to work with both
  • Walk away with your own roadmap for getting your fire back and enjoying lovemaking that melts your heart

For just $19, you’ll get instant access to

🔥Your Shadow Sexual Desire Blueprint Quiz – Discover the unseen forces that may be suppressing your desire

🔥 Unlock Your Sexual Desire 5-Day Video Training – A deep dive into the Sexual Desire Matrix and how it impacts your intimacy

🔥 The Brakes & Accelerators Guide – Know exactly what turns you on and off, so you can shift out of frustration and into pleasure

🔥 Personalised Desire Map – Create your unique sexual desire map so you know how to become an invitation for love so you enjoy a love life that profoundly fulfils you and allows you to feel deeply seen, cherished and adored (I promise you it’s possible!)

What’s the Cost of Doing Nothing?

The real question isn’t “Should I do this?”—it’s “What happens if I don’t?”

Because here’s the truth…

 If you don’t take action, nothing changes. You’ll stay stuck in the same patterns, wondering why your desire feels out of reach.

The spark in your relationship will keep fading. Intimacy will feel more like a chore than a source of pleasure and connection. It’s painful. You might lose your relationship.

You’ll keep putting your fulfilment on the backburner. Your needs will come last, and over time, resentment and frustration will build. You’ll become bitter & unattractive.

 You’ll feel even more disconnected from yourself. When you ignore your sexual energy, you’re also ignoring a vital part of your self-expression and joy. Your light will fade. You’ll struggle with attracting the loving partner you want.

Opportunities for deep, meaningful intimacy will pass you by. Whether you’re in a relationship or looking for love, unhealed patterns will keep you from fully opening up, surrendering to love and feeling deeply loved.

 

You deserve more.

You deserve to feel deeply desired, sexy and at home in your body.

And this is your chance to make that happen—for just $19.

This 5-day deep dive has helped countless women go from feeling stuck and disconnected to understanding how to enjoy heart-melting pleasure and soulful intimacy.

And now, for just $19, it’s yours.

Because the truth is: Knowing your Light Blueprint isn’t enough.
If you don’t address what’s blocking your desire, nothing changes.

Let’s change that today.

Get instant access to your Shadow Blueprint + Unlock Your Desire Training for just $19! 👇

Why This Works

Why? Because most approaches focus on fixing desire rather than understanding it.

Many women have read the books, listened to podcasts, even tried therapy—but they’re still stuck in the same patterns.

The Unlock Your Sexual Desire Training is different.

It’s not just theory—it gives you a personalised framework that works with YOUR unique sexual wiring

It goes deeper than surface-level tips, helping you identify the hidden blocks that are holding you back

It’s practical and science-based — giving you an in-depth understanding of what affects your desire so you can experience real transformation

The "Aha!" Guarantee—This Will Shift Something for You

This isn’t another generic “boost your libido” program.

You WILL walk away with at least one major realisation about yourself that will change how you experience intimacy forever.

And if this training doesn’t give you at least one powerful ‘Aha!’ moment, just email us within 30 days and we’ll refund your $19. No questions asked.

That’s how confident I am that this will shift something for you.

Bonus: The Sensual Reconnection Ritual (Limited Time Only!)

For the next 48 hours only, when you join the Unlock Your Sexual Desire Training, you’ll also get The Sensual Reconnection Ritual—a powerful practice to rewire your brain for pleasure and desire.

This simple, 5-minute daily ritual will help you:

  • Feel more at home in your body
  • Reignite your natural sexual energy
  • Release the stress and tension that shuts down desire

Usually reserved for my private coaching clients, but for 48 hours only, it’s yours FREE with this training.

What Women Are Saying

Why $19? What’s the Catch?

I know $19 seems ridiculously low for something this powerful.

Here’s why I’m offering it at this price:

  • Because I believe every woman deserves to understand her desire—without spending hundreds on therapy or coaching.
  • Because I KNOW this will create a shift for you—and when you experience that, you might want to work with me further.
  • Because information alone isn’t enough—I want you to take action, and this small investment ensures you’re committed to making a change.

There’s no catch—just an opportunity to finally understand and unlock your desire.

This special $19 offer is only available on this page.

After that, the only way to access this training is at the full price of $497.

This is your chance to finally understand what’s blocking your desire and take the first real step toward deep, lasting intimacy.

Don’t wait—this offer disappears once you close this page!

Unlock Your Shadow Blueprint & Full Training for Just $19! 

FAQ

Absolutely! Understanding your sexual desire is about YOU, not just your relationship. Whether you’re single or partnered, this training helps you build confidence and connection with your own sexuality.

Amazing! This training will enhance what’s already working, helping you go even deeper into pleasure and connection.

Nope! Each training is concise, practical, and to the point. You can go at your own pace and start seeing shifts within days.

Day 1

how to love your body workshop part 1

Understand why you’ve been so judgmental about your body and how to change this so you experience your body as a source of joy, pleasure, and sensuality.

Start to dissolve your sense of not-enoughness and shame about your body. Then you can begin to feel at peace with your body as it is right now.

Congratulations! You’ve Discovered Your Light Sexual Desire Blueprint...
Now Let’s Take It to the Next Level!

What if I told you there’s more to your desire story?

To truly unlock your full potential for pleasure and intimacy, you need to understand your Shadow Sexual Desire Blueprint too.

You’ve just uncovered the key to what naturally ignites your desire—the things that make your heart race and bring joy to your intimate life. 

But here’s the thing: every light has its shadow 🌗.

Your Shadow Blueprint is just as important as your light one. 

It reveals the hidden brakes on your desire—the blocks, doubts, and patterns holding you back from the passionate, fulfilling love life you crave.

Do You Ever Find Yourself...

This Workshop Will Help You To...

Imagine...

A woman's happiness depends on her relationship with her body & her sexuality.

Join us to...

01

how to love your body workshop part 1

Understand why you’ve been so judgmental about your body and how to change this so you experience your body as a source of joy, pleasure, and sensuality.

Start to dissolve your sense of not-enoughness and shame about your body. Then you can begin to feel at peace with your body as it is right now.

02

how to love your body workshop part 2

Silence your inner critic and transform her into your best friend. 

You will access your innate feminine qualities, including presence, courage, passion, creativity, sensuality, and, of course, love.

Experience a profound sense of self-acceptance and start igniting your magnetic radiance.

03

how to love your body workshop part 3

Heal your relationship with your body so you feel at home in your skin.

Know exactly what to do to stay in your best health and shape without punishing or depriving yourself.

04

how to love your body workshop part 4

Tap into the power and beauty of your sensuality to become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman—joyful, playful, and deeply fulfilled.

Bring a sense of beauty and love into your sexuality as you reclaim your sexual confidence.

This isn’t just about sex or pleasure; it’s about stepping into your full power and self-assurance.

05

how to love your body workshop part 5

You’ll discover the 3 mistakes that most women make that kill their desire.

 

You’ll understand how to connect to your desire so you feel excited about physical intimacy.

Register today for only $197. Bring along a friend for an additional $97!!!

Join Us

23rd Feb '25

Auckland

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman
1-day in-person workshop
-
The investment for the whole day is only $197
Add a girlfriend's ticket at the checkout for only $97

25th oct '25

Christchurch

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman
1-day in-person workshop
-
The investment for the whole day is only $197
Add a girlfriend's ticket at the checkout for only $97

1st nov '25

Queenstown

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman
1-day in-person workshop
-
The investment for the whole day is only $197
Add a girlfriend's ticket at the checkout for only $97

15th Mar '25

Melbourne

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman
1-day in-person workshop
24 Station Rd, Moorabbin


The investment for the whole day is only $197 + gfriend ticket $97

Frequently Asked Questions

There is no nudity or touch of any kind, except for the hugs you might want to share.

You are welcome to participate as much as you want and you can always choose to step out of any practices we are doing.

It is important that this day is for you and you honour yourself and your needs.

If you feel a bit shy in a group, know that this is a very safe space and the gentle support of other women will relax and empower you.

You can email me at tarisha@radiantwoman.co.nz

The workshop starts at 9.30am and finishes at 5.30pm, with 1 hour for lunch break plust morning and afternoon teas.

I know the power of this work and fully stand for it. If you’re not fully satisfied after the workshop, I will gladly refund you. I do need to attend the workshop to get the refund.

The girlfriend’s ticket need to be purchased at the same time as the main ticket. You will be able to add a girlfriend’s ticket at the checkout. If you don’t add a girlfriend’s ticket at the checkout, you won’t be able to add it later on.

If the experiences from your past negatively affect your daily life, please contact me to arrange time to talk. It could be better for you to have some one-on-one sessions first.

Meet Tarisha

I'm a trauma-informed relationship and female sexuality therapist passionate about supporting women in reclaiming the power and beauty of their sexuality.


With a couple of postgraduate degrees in counselling and psychotherapy, I've had the privilege of guiding hundreds of incredible women on their journey towards rediscovering their desires, learning how to become an invitation for love and affection, and feeling whole.


The result for them? A heart-melting and fulfilling love life.


I’m trained in women-centred coaching, which means I truly understand the unique challenges and complexities that women face when it comes to their bodies and sexuality.


I've designed a holistic approach known as the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman method.


This method doesn't just enhance your sex life; it also boosts your confidence, helps you feel radiant no matter your age, shape or size, and lets you shine in your everyday life.

Trainings I've completed:

A whole day of transformation for only $197

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman

I think it’s time we stand in full partnership with our bodies and heal all the trauma and hurt our bodies hold for us. 

Healing our relationship with our bodies and sexuality helps us to create lasting and healthy relationships, feel confident in our own skin and even enjoy greater success at work.

Are you ready to enjoy more love, success, confidence and zest for life?

Then join us for a live workshop for only $197.

Kind Words From Clients

“Becoming my most feminine and sensual self."

This was such a safe & loving space created by Tarisha. I felt so much support from her and the whole group, and feel such clarity now about how to move forward and become my most feminine and sensual self.
~ Maria

“I realized my beauty, strength and power."

A beautiful, safe space to share with other women, connect with your inner self and realise your beauty, strength and power!
~ Simone

“I feel more womanly and in love with my physical and spiritual self."

Tarisha has a big open heart and created a safe space for me to be vulnerable and do the work. I feel more womanly and in love with my physical and spiritual self after attending this workshop.
~ Chris

"I feel my own inner radiance!"

Before working with Tarisha I felt like I was hopelessly stuck in myself as being sexless, lacking femininity, not much energy or interest to make love, and a never ending to do list.

Yes – real change IS possible! I’m so grateful to be on this discovery journey with Tarisha.  I feel I’m given a big toolbox with life skills which I will use the rest of my life

I feel my own inner radiance and know how to “charge” myself. Radiance is true beauty and could get even better with age, just like a fine wine…
I feel more joy over being me, and an openness and connection to the sensual and sexual me in every day life. The change in my marriage is most pleasurable...
This is more important than going abroad or renovating the house or buying new clothes.

- Madelene, Sweden

"Reconnect deeply with my husband"

I was very good at supporting others but, although I took care of myself in many ways, there was a sense that I could be more present with myself and love my life more. 

This course has been quite a journey. I found that in a lot of ways I could no longer carry on as before but had to stop and listen to my body. I accessed such wisdom and power through the practices shared and the community. I’ve been presencing my needs far more and really listening to myself.

I’ve felt isolated and unable to cope and overwhelmed by my son’s energy. It’s through Tarisha’s course that I’ve been able to reconnect far more deeply with my husband and ask for his support. This time he’s heard.

- Sam Rock Cooper, Bristol, UK, www.samrockcooper.com

"I feel so much more confident!."

Before joining the course, I felt totally disconnected from my body.  What I learned very quickly was that radiance is so much more than just physical attributes.  

Tarisha masterfully led us through various meditations and exercises, and I was able to connect to my inner body who had so much wisdom to share with me about food, sexuality and how to really hear what my body is telling me I need.  

I feel so much more confident moving forward now in the  power of my true radiance!

- Kelly Taylor, Tucson, Arizona

"No more hiding no more shame"

OMG, this week has been just incredible for me! I have been feeling so confident in my body, been even wearing dresses and feeling good, no more hiding and no more shame to be a woman!

So thank you so much, the weekend was profound for me and quite big shifts happened there!

I hope it will just grow and I can’t wait for more events like that, to tap and free myself of more limiting stuff.

- Jan, Wellington

"It's amazing how good I feel about myself"

I felt so drained in my relationship, everything seemed like a struggle and I just couldn’t find time for myself. I used to hate my body, judge my fat belly and I just wasn’t motivated to change my diet.

After working with Tarisha I started to feel excited about looking after myself. I’m not in my perfect shape, but it’s amazing how good I feel about myself. And now I’m motivated to change my diet and am taking steps towards a healthier me. I feel light and a lot happier.

The relationship with my husband has changed dramatically, I want to spend time with with him, I feel I can be myself around him and I enjoy our time together. Life is just way more pleasurable now.

- Barbara, New Zealand

"Unlock the richer luscious life."

I found Tarisha’s course, with her potent practices, depth of experience and embodied teachings, to be like discovering a treasure buried long ago that awaited my return with just the keys that Tarisha provided. 

I highly recommend this course to any woman who wants to unlock the richer, more luscious life within her!

- ML, physician, Ashland, Oregon

Register today for only $197. Bring along a friend for an additional $97!!!

Join Us

23rd Feb '25

Auckland

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman
1-day in-person workshop
-
The investment for the whole day is only $197
Add a girlfriend's ticket at the checkout for only $97

25th oct '25

Christchurch

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman
1-day in-person workshop
-
The investment for the whole day is only $197
Add a girlfriend's ticket at the checkout for only $97

1st nov '25

Queenstown

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman
1-day in-person workshop
-
The investment for the whole day is only $197
Add a girlfriend's ticket at the checkout for only $97

15th Mar '25

Melbourne

Become a Sensually Alive Radiant Woman
1-day in-person workshop
24 Station Rd, Moorabbin


The investment for the whole day is only $197 + gfriend ticket $97
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